So, I'm here reminding myself that right now, what I do is all about me, my life, my happiness. Because when I am the 'new, improved Frank' myself and my daughters will live better.
I've been unhappy and hurting a long time. This is the end, everything is finished. And it's the beginning of something new. I'm going to do very well this year.
I hear you .With God all things are possible,regardless of all the circumstances around you , you can prosper.Day by day , take it day by day.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
Now...to stick with the plan. Stay with this. If she is drinking urine (which, by the way, contains anything poisonous you took in for the day), then, uh....well....I think you get the picture. Send a telegram to OM about what he's been kissing.
You must not fail frank. Part of DB'ing, as we all know, is making changes in ourselves for US. You must turn yourself into a pint of Rocky Road....a conglomerate mish mosh of everyting: -part DB -part N.U.T.S. -part Cunningham -part Deida
You must succeed.
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Failure is not an option.
But not for Lorri....for you.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
So when is she going to start bringing him over for dinner? And how are you going to validate that in your head?
Boundaries?
Its more than a word you type out here.
She isn't. She knows that boundary and others I keep setting.
Yesterday morning I told her about a change to our morning routines regarding our African Grey Parrot. That we don't uncover her cage early if we get up. That way she stays quiet so everyone else can sleep in.
STBX apologized for not realizing the rules had been changed. So, she sees herself as not being in charge. I'm the man in this house.
Now...to stick with the plan. Stay with this. If she is drinking urine (which, by the way, contains anything poisonous you took in for the day), then, uh....well....I think you get the picture. Send a telegram to OM about what he's been kissing.
She did this YEARS ago. And yeah, I agree with you, it's weird. But people think it's a cure all. Check out this article, and the articles by doctors that it links to Urine Therapy. Ick.
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You must not fail frank. Part of DB'ing, as we all know, is making changes in ourselves for US. You must turn yourself into a pint of Rocky Road....a conglomerate mish mosh of everyting: -part DB -part N.U.T.S. -part Cunningham -part Deida
Wow, that just makes me want to gag. Yuck and double yuck
Are there books out there for medicinal uses of poop, buggers, and toe jam? LOL I saw that episode of that guy drinking his own urine and I guess maybe if I were lost in the desert and was dying I would think about it.
Frank,
I like that you are feeling the winds of change on the inside and you took a step that your the man about the parrot. I must have missed it? Why did she move home?
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
Some (all?) of the holistic health stuff is just plain weird IMHO.
It would be entertaining if you could train the parrot to repeat some funny embarrasing phrase (ie. "drink more urine") everytime STBXW got near it.
Sandycay - For your information there was Jenkem which I think has been proved as an urban legend. If it was true, it gives new meaning to the term "sh** faced".
