H is being a little weird I think. He came over yesterday without calling, I knew he was coming "in the afternoon" but he never said when. Showed up at 1:30, I was starting to clean out the garage. Then he was going to take Nathan to the movies. I asked him what time he was meeting Tom to go out, to see if I needed to pick Nathan up at the movies instead of Dan coming back here (Tom lives up in Omaha area so coming back here from the theater would be an hour round-trip for Dan for no reason).
Dan said plans changed, boss invited him (and Tom) and some friends over for dinner and card playing....actually I was glad he wasn't going out to a bar even though it isn't my business.
Dan came back from the movie with Nathan at 5:45 then proceeded to help me finish cleaning the garage (I didn't ask him to, he just started doing it). He didn't leave until my car was safely pulled into the garage--first time we have been able to fit a car in the garage since we bought the house in July!
Anyway he said he would meet us at church this morning. He was acting kind of weird at church, kept sighing and breathing funny and rubbing his knee (he has a bad knee). I asked him if it was hurting and he nodded yeah, a lot. Anyway pastor's sermon was about Jesus and how serving Jesus means doing what He wants for our lives not just focusing on what makes us happy in the moment...interesting.
So anyway when we left church Dan helped Nathan get in the car and then as he was walking away I said he looked like he was in pain. He said, "I am having a very hard time today." I said "Your knee? Or you drank too much last night?" trying to tease him. He looked kind of serious and so I said "Physical or mental?" He said, "Mentally I am struggling". I asked if there was anything I could do and he said No, so I said we'd see him at karate tonight and the kids and I drove away while he walked back to his truck.
Don't know what is wrong with him but I wish he'd find a way to get some peace within himself.
