almostdone2, I also feel like I am at the beginning of this also. Although my xh started working really hard and taking supplements along with diet pills over 1 year ago. He left me in Sept. after I caught ow calling him. He cried and said all they typical things. He left in Sept. and we were divorced in Dec. My head is still spinning, I still feel like he is cheating. His best friends says he is lying to them all the time, and they feel he is unhappy and living a total LIE. My xh continues to kill himself working out and dating 25-30 year old women. He says he wants to try new things. He is almost 41! I so wish this was over!
