Also, this morning I spoke to my xh about our heat that went out in the house. He said he was tired of the drama and ow talks and just wanted to get along basically. I agreed, he said he understood why I get mad, but he was sooo tired of it. He started talking about a friend of ours that left his wife and 3 kids for ow. I told him he had no right to say anything, and he said, yes I do, I didnt leave you with 3 kids. (no he left me with one rebellious teenager, that I love very much). He talks like since there are no young kids involved, that he did nothing wrong. He has said this several times to me. I also told him that no he didnt leave me for a "woman", he left me for "women". and he said yep that he was not in love, he was in "LUST". One of those things I could have went without hearing if I would of just left it alone. BUT, I continued by saying that I thought he was satisfied at home (if you know what I mean) and he said he was but he wanted to try something new. Sometimes if I let my xh just talk, he will tell me things without me even asking him. It's like he needs someone to explain things to. He is ashame to talk to his buddies. (they are all married and dont understand), so he talks to me, he tells me not to ask if I dont wanna know, but he doesnt realize how much he confides in me about this craziness. Does this sound familiar?
I also wanted to add that I thought the no R talks meant only about us, I didnt know it included the ow. I will definately tr and change this.
