... that doesnt sound very loving. Or very nice. To YELL at you, thats not a very mature way to communicate! And in front of the children even and to be so insensitive as to not understand that it is YOU that is there, every day and night taking care of HIS kids and he doesnt have to be cope with that day in day out. How can he have the audicity to tell you that your son's aggressive tendency lately is your fault??? What is he doing, as a parent, to resolve that? Just blaming you? How is that helping?
Sorry, but the more you tell me about your H, the more I think he sounds pretty selfish. Sorry !!
Thats not helpful.. well done on keeping your cool. Perhaps you should calmly say to him though, that you found his words hurtful and just tell him how it made you feel? Instead of just quietly seething over it and then hitting him with it at the MC? He will wonder why you didnt say anything at the time of the row (or will have forgotton about it by next week).
