a new 2maro and snodderly, I am blown away by what you said, it makes so much sense because once I was speaking to him and accidently said something like, "listen son", not even realizing what I said. My xh came up of the sofa and screamed "dont call me son", "I am not your son". I totally believe what you guys are talking about, it makes it soooo much clearer for me now. I have been questioning if this is MLC, I truly think it is. Do you all think so?