Does the pain you feel set you off so easy to where all you think Is ? SHE DOESNT LOVE ME?
I know you arent verbally abusive love. But do you get really hurt by trivial things cause you are starving?
Ali, yes it does feel like sometimes she doesn't love me. It does set me off too, very hard to control if it has been a long time since our last time of ML. The trivial stuff hurts then too. The frustration builds up to the point where it only takes something small to set me off.
UPDATE:
Saturday evening we had a nice evening eating out with D, her new BF, W and me. This was the first time we got to talk to him. D and BF decided to go to a coffee shop and listen to live music there after diner. This left W and me alone for a while.
After they had gone I hugged W and asked, "What would you think about going to bed now?" It was about 9pm.
She asked, "Why don't you rephrase that?"
I got the hint, be more assertive. That's when I said, "Let's get go to bed right now, I want to ML to you." With a big smile on my face.
So no TV's, no waiting until wee hours, just to lovers jumping in bed and enjoying each other. It was great!
From now on I WILL be more assertive. That's what she wants.
