Lol!!! fb2 you are killing me. Fantasy land, moi? because I want time, sweet talks, gifts, smiles, sex, support, appreciation, laughs, verbal sworplay (stole that from lisa) etc etc etc? LOL!!! Yes I am.
Today he came in, brought his nephew with him and without knowing previous arrangement with D, lost it with me because I yelled at her. In front of them made a big fuss and yelled about how I am responsible about my S being "aggressive" and how I should be calm.
I shut off and refuse ever since to talk to him.. We spent a whole day not talking, me in my bedroom and him watching football... Fun day. At least 4 times i thought of telling him we are done. But i didnt, I a making a note about it for the MC. I have an issue with him criticizing me about what I do with the kids, not being patient enough, cool enough, calm enough after him walking out on them because he couldnt handle the responsibilities.
I think it is really easy to be patient with two kids you see 10 hours a week, I have this notion I would be super calm too. I wanted to call him a jerk etc etc and kick him out. BUT..., I didnt. I am keeping to myself so we will not have to discuss it in front of the kids... K