Hi R, Thanks for responding. As I read through your response I notice you are new at this MLC stuff. It looks like your wife dropped the bomb this past Nov. Holy crap, you are at the beginning of this nightmare. My heart goes out to you.
I'm done with all of the fighting and rejection. It's been over 2 years that my H has shown me any real affection. I've had little tidbits here and there but nothing major. My hope is disappearing.
I'd like to know when they are coming out of the fog do they have to say I want to work on the M or can it be an action, like being nicer? Smiling at me? Striking up conversations that are about me not just him? Anyone know the answer? My H is so nice to me now. We still have arguments but instead of me backing down I go right after him with force and now he's the one who backs down. I think he sees that I'm not scared of losing him anymore...but what does this mean? Is his MLC breaking down? Or is he just worried that I'm going to throw his butt out? Help! Thank you.
