It's a good thing to not share the angry thoughts with him. You're right that it is an injustice and his behavior is inconsistent to the point of frustration. You can rant and rave here. I did it for months. It helped me in two ways. First, by being forced to write it out, I caught some of my own inconsistencies. Second, I just got it off of my chest. Not everything we think or feel is written in stone, and as DBers a big part of what we have to do is get over it. Hang in there. --z

PS: He might be testing to see how you react to him disappearing for a night. He might just be an alien who wants privacy. What do you suppose he thinks you'd do in this situation? Is a 180 warranted here?


"A man's character is his fate." -- Heraclitus