H and I had a great R talk tonight, I am still on newcomers. Anyway, what my H told me tonight is that he feels that he has missed out on so much because of the decisions he has made and because of the OLD me, etc... So my H is really trying to figure things out and not resent me so he can have fun with me again and then heal our marriage.
The reason I am telling you this is because you need to "set him free" so to speak inorder for the greater good of your marriage. It is sooo not right, not fair, etc.... but after my saga I think if I hang in there we will make it. I think the same for you. My saga started 1 1/2 yrs. ago so it is a loonnnngggg battle for sure. I know you can do it!
