Just caught up (again) and a few points not pointed out in the GREAT recent posts.
1. The book on Divorce/Kids and how he was upset that you had it - that was DETACHMENT at work!! You have to get to the point where he isn't sure if the door is still open to come back.
2. The sex question - some would say that is good to continue, comunication etc. I would say no out of self-respect but I'm not even a woman or in your shoes so what the hell do I know!!
