I find a lot of time for me. I work out on a regular basis, I crochet alot, watch a couple of favorite tv shows, go to movies, out to eat, I tan, read, pray, and occassionally get massages. I make sure I make "me time". I work with about 80 nurses and physicians. There is always something going on, birthday party, shower, wedding, birth of baby, social event. I try to attend these things more. The staff I work with is very supportive. In fact a nurse I work with is also going through her husband's MLC. She is at the beginning stages though. He has OW and is cakeeating quite a bit right now. She is just experiencing the lying and manipulating behaviors. He says he will end it, but never does. I am trying to help her go through this.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11