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I think some of the more senior members are going to be of great help to you when they log on. I don't want to mislead you as I am just beginning my journey.
Stay strong, and don't fall into the desperate traps and behaviors that will push him away further!
You've come to a very good place. I don't know what I'd do without the strong force of this board behind me.