I had a "strange encounter" with a guy I got to know. We found out that we have the same interests but he seems to be so fussy and I felt that he is too old and not lively enough for me. He also acted in such a strange and critical way that I was happy when we parted. When I got home I was glad for he first time that I was on my own and nobody was telling me what to do or bother me!! I thought I would like some male company again but I don't want just anybody.
I finally got what I thought was a semi nasty e-mail from H which I was expecting for a long time. We have to deal with some business matter and I asked H several times to write to me what exactly I needed to do. He just ignored it and so I told him what I did. THEN he immediately wrote back to tell me whether I have gone mad to do what I did!
I got so furious I blew a gasket! I thought that I refuse to take his nastiness any longer and always be polite and nice. Therefore, I wrote back to him that he needn't think he can walk all over me. I asked him a thousand times to tell me what to do and he didn't, and that I wouldn't mind not dealing with it any longer and letting him do it all.
Two days later H replied that I took the whole thing too seriously and it was meant in a joking way. I should lighten up and that he does not want to walk all over me – he was never like that! That we are not communicating well!
I thought I would write back explaining why the misunderstanding happened but decided to just write "Thank you" in a few days.
I am driving to my GF's place this afternoon. It was snowing again although we have minus freezing temperatures. I hope it will stop by the time I am leaving and it will get warmer like the forecast says.
