GG she will do what she wants your right, I guess the key is to keep busy.
Ian,
Blunt is good I am in this for the long haul. I guess I was over thinking it, I realize this is a roller coaster but I find it hard sometimes knowing were she is.
I have a question regarding the punishing bad behaviour point. I was under the impression that by acknowleding or speaking to their bad behaviour it pushes them away, and by not responding to it doesn't validate what they are doing because you are not giving them a reaction.
In the beginning I told her that it was inappropriate to do what she was doing but she did it anyway in defiance. Thoughts?
T,
I will keep plugging away I am going to speak to my DB coach hopefully monday or tuesday for a tune up. Tonight I went to a birthday party with my neighbour, it was fun to socialize and get out, at the party I was introduced to a woman who was interesting we chatted and I got the feeling she was interested in me. Now by no means would I pursue this I am commited to saving my marriage but it did give me a boost to my ego and it showed me the merits of getting out and meeting people.
Jeff
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
