I have one more question...for now anyway. I have asked my xh if he is serious with this "girl". When I ask him this he screams at me and says to stop asking him this, and wants to know why I always ask him this with each woman. He says just because they stay over doesnt mean I am serious!!!!!! He says that just means we are (well you get the picture). He doesnt care to tell me. NO RESPECT. He just says I shouldnt ask if I didnt want to know. Is he right?