Climbing out of the swamp

[sofaraway]

and how prey tell did you find that out?

[AmyC]

But you said to me last night that HE was calling HER and you said that the calls only lasted 1 minute, and you said that that meant she was "not answering" the call....so now you found out that she is calling him and the calls last for 2 mins or so?

Seems you have two options here, Frank:

1) Call her on it and tell her that she's breaking your boundary

or

2) Quit snooping

[frank_D]

But you said to me last night that HE was calling HER and you said that the calls only lasted 1 minute, and you said that that meant she was "not answering" the call....so now you found out that she is calling him and the calls last for 2 mins or so?

I was misreading the call log. She was calling him.

Seems you have two options here, Frank:

1) Call her on it and tell her that she's breaking your boundary

or

2) Quit snooping

I'll quit snooping. I wanted to believe her but no such luck.

Oh well. It just makes me angry.

[sofaraway]

snooping serves no purpose.

Your boundary was also that she not have her boyfriends at your house not that she cant call him. I am not sure what you are mad at here Frank. You knew about him, she is not bringing him around. Let it go.....


Ian

[frank_D]

snooping serves no purpose.

Your boundary was also that she not have her boyfriends at your house not that she cant call him. I am not sure what you are mad at here Frank. You knew about him, she is not bringing him around. Let it go.....

I am letting it go. It just perturbs me when she says 'I cut it off' but it was a lie.

No worries. It was a good reality check.

[AmyC]

But you said to me last night that HE was calling HER and you said that the calls only lasted 1 minute, and you said that that meant she was "not answering" the call....so now you found out that she is calling him and the calls last for 2 mins or so?

I was misreading the call log. She was calling him.

Seems you have two options here, Frank:

1) Call her on it and tell her that she's breaking your boundary

or

2) Quit snooping

I'll quit snooping. I wanted to believe her but no such luck.

Oh well. It just makes me angry.

Deal with the things that you can control and that sh*t that is yours to own.

[AmyC]

snooping serves no purpose.

Your boundary was also that she not have her boyfriends at your house not that she cant call him. I am not sure what you are mad at here Frank. You knew about him, she is not bringing him around. Let it go.....

I am letting it go. It just perturbs me when she says 'I cut it off' but it was a lie.

No worries. It was a good reality check.

Why did you need a reality check?

Were you delusional?

Are you still wishing in one hand and pissin' in the other?

[frank_D]

Why did you need a reality check?

Were you delusional?

Are you still wishing in one hand and pissin' in the other?

Yeah, and the other one is wet and warm....

[AmyC]

But it ain't no more full than the one you were wishing is it?

[AmyC]

DB 101: GAL