I wonder what your h's mother and father were like. Did his dad always kind of scold or put down what his mother said? I'll bet that is what is going on and he does not know any other way. Maybe????
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19