Hi jackie....it's hard to know what to say.....my h actually called me and took me and showed me his apt...I kinda packed some extra stuff that he could have too..but I left the day he moved...you have to do what your gut feels is the right thing...you have the choice to be angry and mad or to try and half way understand that he is asking for space and respect that. You have to be a distant friend to him..don't put restrictions on the kids seeing him.....the goal here is to piece the r back not drive him away out of anger..come here for the vents.
