Tomorrow will be hectic and I have to get the birthday cake, pick up kids, take them and cake and myself to the party, come back home at a certain time so S18 can use the car for work.
I texted h to see if I could borrow his car at such and such time to pick the kids up. He was like sure and I said thank you and that was it.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I understand your exasperation with your situation, really I do.
I also read your thread in Hopefulness.
The thing is, there are people here who would like to be able to reach out to you and help you, but you are so darn flippant about everything.
It is on the borderline of being rude.
If you want more support, then post here in MLC.
Believe me when I tell you that there are many who have already walked in your shoes who can give you sage advice that may actually help you move along a little faster.
(((hugs)))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
Thank you... I will post more, eventually, but need to stay 'hopeful'. I am sorry about the rudeness. My seventh grade teacher complained about that, too. He said I was 'flippant'.
i have had over 40 sales come in, in the last 12 hours and my printer cartridge that is brand new is not working right. actually, i cannot use refurbished in the dell printer as it says there are all sorts of printer errors and it will not print. i am having to hand write my sales stuff which is a royal pain! refurbished is $10 per cartridge vs. $38 per cartridge. darn!!!
oh and you know how i was supposed to come home and get h's car? he called D15 at 2:30 this afternoon, said he was sick with a sore throat and would not be coming over. i kept my composure but it was hard. she said he sounded "out of it." so we all had to leave early. i felt kind of bad but i could not help it.
he said he would probably come over tomorrow. pretty strange, isn't it?
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
M, I find it very strange that if he's sick one day, he immediately tells you that he'll come over the next day. I often wonder how he knows that his illness will be gone by the next day. I suspect the depression keeps him down and he's hoping it will pass a bit the following day.
Your business is really taking off! I'm glad D's party was nice.
Let's hope and pray your h is in a better frame of mind today and is inching closer to the finish line.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Yes, well yesterday was not a stomach problem but sore throat type thing. I asked D15 if he sounded more hung over than out of it as that is how she described it and she said no, she did not think so. Guess we will never know.
OW putting her foot down--I don't know. You would think that she would be getting fed up by now.........
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
