Checking on you Dawn. I am from the camp that says love unconditionally. So that would mean wishing your h a Happy Birthday regardless of the life he chooses.

You can't have any expectations nor can you be hurt if he doesn't respond or even say thank you. How would you feel if that happened?

I remember wishing h Merry Christmas one year, make that 2 years without any acknowledgement. No even a simple thank you, but I forged on ahead. It was for me not him. You decide what would work for you.

Sometimes you never know until you try.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"