MWG you may be onto something there. I hadn't really thought about it. I was thinking though it is along the lines of what CMNM said that I am telling him an issue that he knows he can't fix and then he feels at fault.
I think CMNM is onto something. I just feel I can't say truly what is on my mind without being scolded or something.
I do think this is something that I can bring up in C though. Our C has a good way of helping h understand what I am trying to say or feel.
We have C again not this week, but next.
I did call h later in the day. He had asked me to check craigs list for a twin bed for d4. We found one, so we will pick it up tomorrow evening. H was in agreement.
MWG my s20 wasn't always this mature, but he has grown into a fine young man. He makes me so proud. He even said, mom I will just stay over on Tues and Wed evening since you need help with the kids. H will be in FL this week, so I will need S20 to help afterschool until I get home.
I watched Fireproof again. It made me cry in parts. I handled it much better this time, but then wonder why I can't have a fairy tale ending.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"