I love Mockers' idea of a massage. Last Fri, just after my H and I had had a big row (I actually told him to go away again: see my thread in Infidelity for more details), I went on a bussiness trip. Got there 7h early, so I went to the hotel spa, swam for an hour, had a Swedish massage and a facial! I had not been that relaxed in my life! Fixed me for a whole week! It is money absolutely well spent, on me for a change. I calculate it saved me about 3 or 4 psychologist visits (and it cost less than 1h with my shrink does).
And when my H got to the hotel (by then he had apologized and backpedaled) I was very much in the mood to skip dinner and... We did! Talk about PMA!
Good luck tomorrow. Will be thinking of you.
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
We did! Talk about PMA! 
