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[mcojh]

Hi Everyone,
He then went on about how the house was never spotless enough for him. I said the house is clean. He said, "Yes, but not spotless." I said the only ones I know that work fulltime and have a spotless house are the ones that hire someone. I said right now I can't afford that.

Well Yoyo, I believe this is called re-writing history. He has to justify his behavior somehow.

I said we are married and we don't act like it. Married people don't live apart for two years. I said I love you, but I don't want to do this anymore. I said either we work this out or we get a divorce. He asked me what I wanted. I told him I wanted my marriage, but I couldn't make him want it. I told him that he told me at the beginning of this mess that he wanted to be happy too. I said if I can't make you happy then we needed to get some closure. He said you just want to take my business, you can have it. I said no, but we will spit everything evenly.

He then reached over and hugged me and tried to initiate. I didn't respond. He let go and got up and left.

Good for you, you were assertive and cool.

so what now?

I think you should go talk to an attorney to be prepared. You gave him an ultimatum. If you intend to go through with it, you need to be prepared.