Hi Jackie,

I have been keeping up with you, just not been posting as don't know what to add here to all the great advice you are getting plus so close to everything for me a bit difficult.

But from personal experience don't make the Sunday decision time a big deal. Just be supportive. I don't think he is going to figure all of this out quickly. He seems very confused and to be hurting a lot. I know David isn't. He has been gone two months now, I'm not sure he is any closer, I am pretty sure he didn't expect it to take him this long from some things he had said about Ceb being gone for three months like he couldn't believe that long!

I DO think you are doing a very good job managing your emotions and honestly them being gone does get easier. I didn't think it would but it did. I can't remember how long it took me to get to that point but at least it came thank goodness!

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Jackie}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"