I would take it all into your original thread and let this one go.
Yes, do back off and don't push things right now.
Listening is a skill you definitely need to develop. Think of her as a huge valve with loads of pressure built up, and every time you speak, you shut that valve and allow more pressure to build. Listening without interrupting and validating what she is saying is allowing some of that pressure to release. Don't initiate the conversation, give her space and let her come to you when she's ready.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
