When do you ever make a post that doesn't make sense? Some of the people here are amazing at the brillant insights and writing they have, and you are definitely in that group!
I like your reminders to be patient and to stop borrowing trouble! I need to dance again. I need to laugh. And probably do it with my children and bring up all our spirits.
My BIL and SIL have never been overly close. H and I each have one sibling and I have tried to do family functions and put them on the top of the list, but that came up in C, H doesn't want that. His B has been on the climb of money and prestige, live in a ritzy part of the state and we just don't fit into that. Also having kids, vs. not having kids made a bit of a difference. But, kids changes everyone's lives, so they may ease up a bit. I'll have to keep positive thoughts and go with the flow of things.