No, I don't think she really wants to do anything herself to make the M work. She'd be happy for me to spend the next 10 years trying, I think. (OK, that might be mean, but that's how it feels.)
I can so relate. Is it mean ??
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
