"They said we need to do something for each other every day, surprises of any kind that we can think of. One each day. They are trying to make him act and make me find patience. "
...sounds very different to the last idea of MC - are these different MC? Or the same ones flip flopping?
By the way - I like the latest idea much better than the previous one!
best and KBO - GFI
Me: 40ish W: 40ish Together: 20 ish years Married: 10ish Years