It's time churches realise that it's this type of thing that keep people away. Why join a church with such hypocrisy going on? I know I wouldn't. Your H is 'happy' now while things all seem to be going his way. He feels in control. That this OW was meant to be --- after all, look how they 'found' each other again. He is in euphoriaLand right now. And, euphoria looks a lot like happy.

Wait until things don't quite go his way, and he can't blame you.

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim