We had the MC today and then met with a friend of mine and her kids and went for lunch. He then went to work.
2 hours MC today. He had the exercises but needs to redo some because for example at the question "what are your fears regarding your R with Maria" he answered "that something will happen to her". He said he thought he couldnt mention anything about the past...??? I had 3 pages with ALL my fears including that I may have outgrown him, cant love him as I should, he will do it again, live a lonely life if I stay in the M, carry all the burden etc etc...
He listened and didnt comment. He also heard all the OW comments and didnt react. I got upset when the one C said that it's ones right to find a OP if he/she is not happy in the R. I said I dont agree and that is the easy way out.
They said we need to do something for each other every day, surprises of any kind that we can think of. One each day. They are trying to make him act and make me find patience.
One thing interesting : he said he is afraid he will get fed up with the responsibilities again in the future... K
