As if you didn't already have enough advice, if I may.....
Do what feels comfortable for YOU.
To often we are focused on how something we are doing is or may affect the other person. I have been very guilty of this myself. I feel much of the advice on the boards is opinions which people believe will best serve that end (WAS's return).
The truth is only they are in control of that outcome. Entertaining thoughts that our actions may affect our WAS is an excercise in self-delusion (and possibly self-torture).
It's a lot easier to do what is best for us after the emotional connection dies.
Do what YOU want to do, Frank.
To do anything else is not being true to yourself or your WAS and accomplishes nothing other than keeping you in the prision of her actions.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.
