Do I hug or not

[hopefulinEG]

I have read about doing a 180 and I am not sure what to do. It sounds like it is to back off totally so maybe they will miss you and realize their mistake. I guess there is no right or wrong but I have been wrong so much I don't feel like I can trust my instincts anymore.

I don't know how far to go with the become friends thing. Do I seem mildly interested but not overly so. One of her issues was that I didn't listen to her so does a 180 mean I need to start listening to everything she says no matter or to stay back so I don't act like I'm trying to hard?

~Catherine