Thanks guys... I pondered it for the day and in the end decided to sent a txt first, so as not to drive the discussion into an argument right off the bat. Fewer words, more direct question.
"Hey. Kids told me that KIDSNAME has been sleeping over a lot. What's up with that?"
She answered back yes and asked me if it was okay. I responded negative and she pretty much agreed to stop it. I'm monitoring it now, will follow up with more if need be. Talked to a L about "No overnight guests of opposite sex & not in family" clause in papers. He said that covered the SON of her BF. :-) Bet she didn't expect that!
Anyway, for the time being all is quiet on that front.
Mike, I got floored by a woman I met last night. It was someone that friends have been trying to get me to meet for a few weeks now. Went to a birthday party for three of us whose birthday was yesterday, friends invited her. Didn't think all that much of it and I wasn't holding my breath, but... WOW! We really hit it off. Dated a few women over the last year but this one is different some how!
