Frank,

For the sake of peace and semblance in your life

Pick one person to get advice from.

There are obviously too many schools of thought here, and too many perspectives.

This thread was intended to give you good advice and to help guide you along the way, instead it has become a pissing contest.

Don't forget how to breathe!!!!

(((((((hugs)))))))

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.