So originally I had the kids for the whole weekend except a couple hours on Saturday when H wanted to come over. Then H asked me if he could have the kids on Friday night since he didn't close on his house and had more time....I said sounds good I was thinking of going out Friday anyway.
Well then H called to see if I wanted to go to a movie with him and the kids. Nathan told him he'd rather stay home and watch a movie...
So then H calls me at 5:30 asking me which movie (he was at the video store). H calls again at 6:30 to say he is on the way home now...
I had in the meantime gotten dressed up cute and curled my hair, did my makeup, etc... I asked what was taking so long, he said he had let a guy go and the boss wanted him to come back to the office to talk about it? Then he starts sharing with me all about what it is like to fire someone, how it isn't fun to be the boss, etc etc
I validated but then I said "I haven't made anything for the kids for dinner I thought you were doing that, I am ready to go out..."
He acted all flustered, said he didn't know he was supposed to get dinner, he thought I was going to stay there with them tonight. I said no I had plans but I would start dinner since I couldn't leave until he got there anyway.
So he got there at 7, I told him some girls from work were going to dinner and then to a martini bar at the casino. He said, "Oh, ok" And then a minute later, "Who all is going?" He doesn't even know anyone from my work! So I listed off the younger (25-30) girls at work who were going.
He just seemed sort of surprised by the whole thing.
I went and I put in $10 at the casino and left with $50 so my two martinis and creme brulee were free!