Sounds like you are getting some good advice here and I also think it is a good thing that he is calling a lot! That he asked for the pictures. I don't think he is decided at all. I think he sounds confussed and stressed and hurting.
Hang in there.
{{{{{{{{Jackie}}}}}}}}}}
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"