Sorry things are so rough for you right now. I hope you can find your way out of it.

On a bright note, he is calling a lot. I had a different experience at the beginning of my seperation. For the first couple months she wanted very little contact with me and so I complied and went dark on her. We don't have kids so there was absolutely no need for contact. This was very difficult so be glad that he is in regular contact.

Being that he's in regular contact it might be time to dig back into the DB basics and think of some good 180s. What could you do now that would surprise him? I think being less responsive to his calls is a good start. This doesn't mean being cold towards him, but if you act as if you're fully prepared to move on that just might shake him up a little bit. What else can you do that will surprise him? Take advantage of the regular contact by making some changes that will get him thinking.

A dream it's true But I'd see it through If I could be Wasting my time with you -Band:Phish Song:Waste