WE all want to respect each other here. This is the NEWCOMERS section. Michele Weiner-Davis does not warrant actual dating, or affairs as a tactic to salvage your marriage. Its a deadly game where people get hurt. For divorcebusting to work, please read Divorce Remedy, and start with the basics! If you wish to continue with the topic of Jealousy, please post under the Infidelity/ExtramaritalAffairs/Jealousy forum.