There's a substantial difference between deciding you're done waiting for the WAS to come home and moving forward with your life .... and dating as a Machiavellian tactic to attempt to provoke jealousy in a WAS.
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert
WE all want to respect each other here. This is the NEWCOMERS section. Michele Weiner-Davis does not warrant actual dating, or affairs as a tactic to salvage your marriage. Its a deadly game where people get hurt. For divorcebusting to work, please read Divorce Remedy, and start with the basics! If you wish to continue with the topic of Jealousy, please post under the Infidelity/ExtramaritalAffairs/Jealousy forum.