As far as dinners, we're giving the girls a mixed message if both of us are at the table with them. We're separated, room mates. So I'm going to suggest we alternate days having dinner with the girls.
I honestly believe you make life too damn complicated for yourself.
You are not giving mixed messages to the girls, in fact you are setting an example of what co-parenting should be.
My snarky quote about the ruby slippers basically meant that you have had the ability to be Frank all of the time, you just refused to pay attention and use what you already had to get there.
You don't need 72 people posting to you, all giving their advice. Most of this is common sense.
I don't mean to be short with you, really I don't, but the analysis paralysis you suffer from sometimes makes me spin too!!
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
