It is a stupid situation, and you will drive yourself nuts trying to figure it out.
I just told W she had to either end the affair or I would file divorce - she had said she was putting in for a dissolution. She emailed me back, "It's just taking time." The LAST thing I expected was for her to delay in any way!
Stop trying to understand at this point. If it ever happens where you are with a marriage counselor or something, then try to "understand".
Just read the rules above. Honestly, H might be angry because you have DONE NC for 4 days, think about that? Don't give up now! You just might have something!
P.S. Day two for me again. I did contact W because I needed someone to push my car where I got stuck! Then she started talking to me, and I simply responded nicely. I also had to ask her to get kids' pajamas as they are having pajama day at school Monday.
Then she started talking to me, and I simply responded nicely. I also had to ask her to get kids' pajamas as they are having pajama day at school Monday.
