Hhhmmm..... some interesting observations. Would you say your W also has a self esteem issue?? I would guess probably and that she has not found happiness with herself yet. And it seems many WAS have a hard time finding that happiness within themselves. I suppose guilt & forgivness (of themselves) have a lot to do with it. We all make mistakes, the thing is you need to face them, learn from them & do what is best not to repeat them. Myself & the many mistakes in my life, I could kick myself down forever for them. Or I can choose to understand them, not repeat them & try to move on (that goes for many aspects of life).

Good to hear you had a nice time, even if your W was a bit blah \:\)


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)