When my dad got angry, he hurt people, emotionally or physically or both. Period. He didn't have the tools...
So yeah, I get afraid when Frankd says he wants to be angry...and you guys egg him on as if you know what it'll mean for his daughters. Sorry, but that's my take on it.
AmyC suggested that I say I am 'offended', not 'angry'. 'Angry' carries too much weight to it. And 'offended' is closer to how I am feeling.