Sorry your plans fell through for company last night.
It seems at least that your H is telling you some of the thinking process he has going on right now. David did that in the beginning some but I am blaming his distancing on my meltdowns. Could also partially be he just needed more space from me to help him figure himself out.
I don't suppose he could get a job in a similar area but without as much stress? David has kicked around another job also but he really likes what he does and some of the local people at his job.
He probably is down some. I thought David was down a lot of the times when he was first calling. I think it is an adjustment for them and they have to deal with the fact that they did leave and that they do miss their family and probably a lot of other thinking as well.
Just keep being his friend. He does sound way over stressed and sort of confused right now.
{{{{{{{{{{Jackie}}}}}}}}}}}
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"