I've learned not to bother with these little bits of bait that STBX throws out from time to time. When we were married (oh yeah,we still are married!) I used to get encouraged when she'd say things like "I'm so confused, I need time to think" but the she'd turn around and say "Oh, I'm sorry if you thought I was confused, I'm not"...OOOOKKKK. Now, she can toss these little goodies out whenever she wants and I'm not putting any of myself into the outcome. Yup, I'd love for her to find her way but I'm not losing sleep over it! Uh Uh, those days are done. Take care, GB.
