I am making progress in disengaging from initiating contact. Now I see that I need to disengage from being open and available to contacts initiated by her. I will JUST DO IT!, for me and my children. I demand more. I deserve better. I am a man. Co-dependency doesn't suit me. I am no longer tolerating mistreatment. Moving forward.

Last edited by still hopeful; 01/31/09 04:00 AM.
Letting Go Tom; JUST DO IT!
previously hopeful_husband

my A: Fall 05
W found out: Feb 06; separated immediately
W pursued D, final 7/11/07

me: 43
XW: 34
D8
S3
joint legal/physical custody