Have I taken a step backwards?

Ok Wife sat down with me at the dinner table. ( I brought home some KFC).
We talked about her mom a little. (I was over her mom's house working in her garden earlyer today.
I reminded W that her mom said W was going to take her shopping this weekend. Wife got a little upset Saying she needed to wash the sheets and get "her room" ready and wanted to go buy some clothes for her new job yada yada yada...

SO I told her if she wanted to hold off until next weekend to move out of son's room it would be alright with me.
NOW remember I have not said anything to W all week about moving out of son's room or any R Stuff .. So she was doing thins kind of on her own.
When I said she could wait she said "That would really help me out"
So I was not being weak. I just wanted W to be as rested and comfortable as possibe when she shows up to work on Monday.(she has not worked in over a year)..

But did I lose ground here? any imputs?

Doc.

P.S Wife seems realy at ease around me since our last talk.


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know