pardon me for missing the "essence" of this scenario with the dinner, and her invitational comment, but Do you think she's trying to poison you? I mean, why not say either "no thanks, I have plans," or "thanks for cooking, I'll pick 'x', and I'll cook tomorrow" ?
Your d's are watching your interactions and probably saw your w make a nice gesture. And you said what? This is not a conspiracy or secret plan to ruin you or judge you...but to make you dinner. If she had made dinner for everyone BUT you, you'd feel what?
Hurt? Angry? Both. But she offered you a choice in dinner. Geez Frankd, what's she got to do to get you to just "be"? Stop the analyzing. It ain't helping you. (j)
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
